Heartbreak Ahead: Dodge These 18 Dating Red Flag Types!
In this blog, we’re your trusty guides, revealing the 18 red flag types that might be signaling potential heartbreak on the horizon.
Navigating the realm of romance can be thrilling, but it’s essential to be equipped with the knowledge to steer clear of potential pitfalls. From subtle signals to glaring warnings, we’re here to shine a light on the red flags that could save you from heartache down the road.
18. Gaslighter
Gaslighters manipulate and distort reality, making you doubt your own perceptions and experiences. If he consistently undermines your confidence, denies things he said or did, and leaves you feeling confused, it’s a toxic dynamic to steer clear of.
17. Men in Government Office
With all the recent news about corruption and government scandals, it’s probably best to avoid dating from this group.
If he is power-hungry, quick to anger, or has history of violence, just move on!
16. Contentious Men
These guys love to argue, even if they don’t actually believe in what they’re saying. They’re just trying to get a rise out of you.
They want to have the last word, interrupt you when you’re talking, or try to make you feel stupid when you disagree with them.
15. Bigoted Men
Unless you’re into divisiveness, you might want to steer clear of these guys.
Exhibiting intolerant and disrespectful behaviors, they talk about politics all the time, are dismissive of your opinions if you don’t agree with them, and are misogynistic, racist, or homophobic.
14. Narcissist
He says he loves you, but he never calls or texts. He says he wants to commit, but he won’t go on an exclusive date with you. Run away from these guys!
He makes excuses for why he can’t see you, is inconsistent with communication, and is not honest with you about his intentions. These are signs that he may not be interested in a committed relationship.
13. Men Who Bad-Mouth Their Exes
Newsflash: the common denominator in all of his relationships is him.
If he blames all of his exes for the problems in his relationships and talks about his exes in a negative way, he may be emotionally unavailable or even dangerous.
12. Unhygienic Men
If he smells like he hasn’t bathed in a week, that’s a red flag. Grossness is a no-no!
Bad breath and untidy clothes are dead giveaways.
11. Racist, Sexist, and Homophobic Men
Say no more!
They make racist, sexist, or homophobic jokes, and have a history of discrimination. Additionally, they are dismissive of people who are different from them.
10. Men Who Value Money and Achievement Over Relationships
If he’s always working and never has time for you, he’s not worth it.
Cancelling plans at the last minute due to work, being unavailable even on weekends, and just talks about his job when around you are signs that they’re likely to favor their job over you.
9. Men Who Are Too Controlling
These guys are just into women who are submissive and won’t challenge them.
They don’t want you to have your own opinion. They want you to fit into a mold that they like for themselves.
8. Know-It-Alls
These guys think they know everything, even when they don’t.
They like to interrupt and interject their ‘knowledge’, hence they like to talk over you. These types are also dismissive of others’ thoughts and opinions.
7. Men Who Flirt With Women All The Time
These guys are disrespectful and creepy.
They make predatory actions like inappropriate comments, touching without your consent, or not taking no for an answer,
6. Zealot
If you’re not religious, dating a religious guy can be complicated.
Good for you if you’ve found a nice religious man, but if he tries to convert you to his religion, or is judgmental of your beliefs, you may just have to say, “Thank you, next!” Amen to that!
5. Momma’s Boys
He is too attached to his mother and can’t make his own decisions.
This could be a sign that he’s still immature. Save the dating for when he can leave the chicken coop!
4. Excessive Drinking or Drug Use
He has a problematic relationship with alcohol or drugs, leading to reckless behavior. Some of the signs are frequent encounters with law enforcement related to drug offenses, rapid weight loss or fluctuating weight, and unexplained financial difficulties. Gotta run from these!
3. Secretive About His Past
He avoids discussing his past, especially when it comes to relationships or personal history. Being reserved is one thing, but outright avoidance is suspect.
2. Constantly Negative
He’s always negative, complaining about everything, and rarely finds joy in life. Everything is someone else’s fault to these types; they don’t take accountability for their actions.
1. Disregards Your Family and Friends
He dismisses or isolates you from your friends and family, undermining your support system. You have no business being with a man who doesn’t acknowledge your support system. I would also add that it is important to listen to your gut. If you have a bad feeling about someone, even if you can’t explain why, it’s best to err on the side of caution and move on.
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